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To help children excel, we have a simple, practical, and fun approach. 

5 minutes weekly topics, tips & training for parents. 

To Help Children Excel: 

We believe that if the parent(s) learn certain communication and critical thinking techniques, then they can utilize some easy strategies to support their children in becoming independent learners who want to do their best and excel on their own. 

All of which leads to student success, higher test scores and grades, resourcefulness, with less stress and anxiety, happier kids, and happier parents! 

The focus of our tips and training are mastering the basics, to build a strong and agile foundation for learning and resourcefulness; which is learned through intentional practice for what works best for you.

We focus on teaching through questions/suggestions, and the art of story telling, and less instructions based; which helps develop greater critical thinking and communication skills for the children and parents. 

Most teachers do an amazing job teaching our children! So our approach includes making the teachers' job easier by helping our children learn how to ask effective questions at school and enjoy academics. 

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Who Is An Independent Learner? 

Our definition of an independent learner is someone who: 

  1. Asks effective questions, 

  2. Curious, open minded, 

  3. Enjoys listening, observing, learning, and exploring different perspectives and strategies, 

  4. Resourceful, improvising, agile, 

  5. Develops self-leadership and self-confidence, 

  6. Enjoys communicating their thoughts, 

  7. Enjoys accountability: do what you say - say what you do, 

  8. Wants to understand why and how things work, 

  9. Prioritizes remembering, and observes how we forget, 
  10. Developing/pursuing his or her directions and opportunities in career/life to take care of themselves, their families, and their communities through education and collaboration. 

You could use the above as a checklist when working with your children. You could also practice the learning/teaching quotes listed below. If you need help, reach out to us as we support developing these skills in yourself and your children. 

Below is a helpful diagram from Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi that describes skills/ability development and excelling/flow through challenges.
It's helpful to note that sometimes challenges are needed to develop certain skills.
iLearners supports the skills/ability development to enjoy and excel through academics/learning process. 

What We Do

What We Do

Free Weekly Topics, Tips and Training For Parents: 

5 minutes a week 

Weekly posts on this website under the Weekly Tips tab, Social Media, and Email Subscription. 


  1. Topics with thought provoking questions 

  2. Tips/ food-for-thought 

  3. Weekly practice suggestions 

When learning anything, note the following: 

Learning most skills, habits, and succeeding in the long run has the same foundational formula, which is the following: 

  1. Write down your questions (by hand or typing). 

  2. See how you could make the learning fun and engaging (i.e. talk with friends and family about it, go at your own fast/ med/ slow pace, share your journey, learn together with others, make it a fun challenge, celebrate the successes, etc.).

  3. Write down your notes and thoughts. 

  4. Write down what you'll practice doing differently based on what you're learning. 

Each week we'll post tips/training (including thought provoking questions and weekly practice suggestions) on communication, critical thinking, study and organization skills, and how that can be applied to helping your children become independent learners with higher grades in school and beyond. 

  • The earlier you start, the easier it is with younger children. 

  • For older children, they could learn these skills along with you. 

To learn these skills/tips/training deeper for the long run:

  1. Your part is to write your questions/notes. 

  2. Do general internet search to get a few different perspectives. 

  3. Write what you'll practice doing differently going forward. 

  4. The weekly tips give perspectives and focus, and help speed up the learning for yourself and your children. 

  5. This training is not about only "learning" something in our minds to recite. The focus of the training is on being able to practice and use these communication and critical thinking knowledge/skills when we are feeling well and when we are under some stress; paralleling how some children feel when they are taking an exam. 

The results for the children are increased academic/ learning skills, increased test scores and grades, less stress/ anxiety, confidence, happier empowered children, knowledgeable, agile, better communication skills with teachers/ parents/ others. 

The results for the parents is joy seeing your kids happier/ confident/ knowledgeable, and you having skills to continue empowering your children, grand children, family/friends, agility, and empowering yourself for the long run. 

Focus is on the Basics and Simplicity, and reminders/practices for what works best for you and your children

  • The tips and training we provide focus on the basics, to build a strong and agile foundation for learning and resourcefulness; which is learned through intentional practice of what works best for you and your children. 

  • We focus on teaching through the art of story telling and questions/suggestions, and less instructions based; which helps develop greater critical thinking and communication skills for the children and parents. 

The weekly tips/training is designed to start any time to teach a variety of topics and skills, all of which are related to helping yourself and your children excel by developing the above mentioned skills, and by practice/repetition in a fun way. The weekly tips/training will be taken down over time, and replaced with new weekly tips/training. If you missed anything, or want to learn more, the previous weeks' tips/training will become available later on this website. 

For faster, more advanced, one-on-one or group training and coaching, please fill out the contact form below or email us at

Learning Quotes

Our Favorite Learning and Teaching Quotes: 

1. “If a child can't learn the way we teach, maybe we should teach the way they learn.” - Ignacio Estrada 

2. "Teaching is listening, learning is talking." - Deborah Meier 

3. "Good teaching is more a giving of right questions than a giving of right answers." - Josef Albers 

4. “A problem well stated is a problem half solved.” - Charles Kettering 

5. "The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function." - F. Scott Fitzgerald 

6. “Leadership and learning are indispensable to each other.” - John F. Kennedy 

7. Our favorite definition of Rapport: "a close and harmonious relationship in which the people or groups concerned understand each other's feelings or ideas and communicate well." 

8. Art of storytelling and suggestions for Teaching: “To know how to suggest is the great art of teaching. To attain it we must be able to guess what will interest; we must learn to read the childish soul as we might a piece of music. Then, by simply changing the key, we keep up the attraction and vary the song.” - Henri Frederic Amiel ​​

9. "No significant learning occurs without a significant relationship." - Dr. James P. Comer

Contact, Topics Request, Testimonials: 

We love to help others on their path to success. We love helping parents, students, adults and communities thrive through education and collaboration. 

Feel free to request topics you'd like us to cover. Also feel free to leave any feedback or testimonials in this form. 

For one-on-one or group training and coaching, please submit this form or send us an email at hello@iLearners.comLet us know what you'd like help with. 

Thank you! 

iLearners Team 

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